Hi, I’m Pooja! I’m so glad you’re here
I envision a world where everyone in a relationship can navigate uncertainty with confidence, understand what truly matters matter to them so they don’t stay stuck for the wrong reasons and create relationships that honour their needs and values.
My mission is to empower those who feel stuck in their relationship to find their clarity, confidence and peace so they can make decisions that truly honour them. I will create a non-judgemental and safe space for my clients to be able to express themselves freely and honestly, enabling them to excel in every aspect of their life.
The little girl in you, she still dreams - and I do what I do because of that little girl in me
If you’re here, chances are something in your marriage doesn’t feel the way you hoped it would. Maybe nothing is “terribly wrong”, but something important feels missing.
You might feel deeply disconnected from your partner… invisible in the relationship… or constantly questioning whether you should keep trying or start a new chapter. And the hardest part is the mental back and forth. One day you tell yourself things aren’t that bad. The next day you’re feeling trapped, thinking you can’t do this any longer.
You think about the kids, the life you built together, the fear of being alone…and you freeze, unable to move in either direction. And so you stay stuck, for months, even years. And this is marriage limbo - a painful, frustrating, exhausting space!
Who I help
Over the years, I’ve seen how many men and women quietly live in this space of uncertainty. From the outside, their lives look perfect. But inside, they’re wrestling with questions they feel they can’t say out loud.
“Am I asking for too much?” “Am I being dramatic?”
“I should be grateful for everything I have, so why am I so unhappy?”
“Isn't this just what marriage is after so many years?”
What most of my clients discover is that the real struggle isn’t the relationship itself, it’s the loss of clarity and connection with themselves. When you’ve spent years prioritising your family, your partner, and everyone else’s needs, it can become incredibly hard to hear your own voice.
That’s where I come in!
You might be someone who:
Feels emotionally disconnected from your partner
Wonders if the spark can ever come back
Feels invisible, unseen, not cared for or not valued in your relationship
Often thinks about leaving but then gets overwhelmed by fear, guilt or uncertainty
Stays because of the kids, history or the life you built together
Is living a silent divorce without even realizing it
Is scared that you will regret leaving and terrified you will regret staying
Is so sick of being stuck in this loop that you think you’re going crazy!
Many of my clients are not in a dramatic crises. They’re simply exhausted from living in uncertainty. They want to understand what they truly want - without pressure, judgement or fear.
If this is you, you’re not alone, and you don’t have to figure it out alone!
Why my clients work with me:
When you’re questioning your marriage, it’s easy to feel like everyone around you has an opinion. Friends may tell you to leave, family may tell you to stay. But very few people create space for you to slow down and truly understand what you want.
That’s what I do! My clients work with me because I help them:
Move out of the exhausting limbo phase and find clarity
Understand what’s really missing in their relationship
Reconnect with their own needs, thoughts and desires
Release guilt and fear around making a decision
Find clarity about whether to rebuild their marriage or walk away peacefully
Some clients choose to rebuild their marriage with deeper honesty and connection. Other realise its time to start a new chapter. But all of them stop living in limbo! They stop living in uncertainty and start making choices aligned with who they truly are today, not who they were when they began the relationship.
My transformation moment:
My own transformation began one morning when someone very close to me said “you’ve got to get yourself together because I’m tired of you complaining about things that you actually can do something about.” It hit hard, it hurt, but it rang true. That’s when I decided to get back control of my life, because the only one who could save me was me. I got the professional help I needed, I became crystal clear about what I wanted my future to look like and one step at a time, I got what I knew I deserved!
My Journey
Born and brought up in Mumbai, India, I went to university in Switzerland when I was 18 and went on to work in Geneva, London, Dubai, NYC, Mumbai and finally in Barcelona. In the midst of all that, I married an Italian guy and have a gorgeous son!
Those who know me well describe me as an extrovert, reliable, confident, loyal, compassionate, empathetic, fun, enthusiastic, passionate and a go-getter! Through the years, I’ve had people talking to me about their worries, asking me for advice and thanking me for helping them through a complicated moment.
Through all this, there was always an inner voice within me pushing me to do more with this strength and I finally decided to pursue coaching. Jay Shetty, Mel Robbins and Tony Robbins are amongst those I follow extensively and I took a leap of faith and joined the Jay Shetty Coaching Certification School. I was scared to give up my job, afraid of not having a regular income, not sure where it would take me but it turned out to be one of the best decisions I ever made!
As Tony Robbin’s said “If you change nothing, nothing changes”. I strongly believe it’s all in your mind and you just need to control it and rewire your mindset in order to achieve anything and everything you want. Change your mindset, change your life!
You don’t have to stay stuck
If you’re feeling torn between staying and leaving, you don’t have to figure it out alone.
Are you ready for your next chapter?
Schedule a free discovery session with me today! It will be my honor to accompany you on the next step of your journey.
xx, Pooja
“What you think, you become
What you feel, you attract
What you imagine, you create”
— Buddha
Why I Care - Because I’ve Been There Too
I coach because I believe that everyone has the potential to control their lives through their mindset, choices and actions. However, sometimes you have difficulty finding the path, and it’s helpful to have someone guide you and walk with you.
I know too many amazing people who lose themselves during their journey, be it because of becoming a partner and/or a parent, having to follow someone else’s dreams and passions or fulfilling the desires of their parents but not their own. They experience feeling stuck, confused, guilty, frustrated, resentful, insecure and lonely, and with each passing day they are further away from where they want to be.
I’ve been there, I’ve felt it and I want to help others who are now going through this experience, to find their passion, their sense of clarity, their own path and to discover who they are today and where they want to get to. I want to provide my clients with a safe, non-judgmental space for them to feel free and express themselves honestly without the fear of being judged.