Stuck in Marriage Limbo?
- Should I Stay?
- Should I Leave?
- Should I Do Nothing and hope it magically gets better?
Hi, I’m Pooja, a Certified Relationship Coach
I help women who feel invisible in their marriage - stuck between staying for the family and leaving for themselves, or stuck between the fear of being alone and the excitement of a new chapter - find clarity and confidence to make a decision about their relationship out of choice, not fear.
The most frustrating and painful space to be in is a state of limbo... not knowing which way to go. So this is about finding clarity, peace, and the power to choose yourself - without fear, guilt, or shame.
Through my coaching, I will help you to reconnect with who you are, uncover what’s really missing, and decide whether you want to rebuild that spark or walk away - with peace, not guilt.
7 years.
When I ask a client how long it took them to finally decide to see a coach to help them find clarity in their journey, the majority of them say 7 years.
That’s 7 years of your life where at best you drifted along just doing what you’ve always done without seeking a happier version of yourself or at worst it’s 7 years where you were subjected to emotional, psychological or physical abuse.
BUT that’s 7 years, and not 17 years! So thank you for showing up today, reading this, and making the decision to take control of your life.
You’re still wearing your wedding ring
You’re still living with your husband
But emotionally? You’ve checked out
Your Marriage Reality Check
Let’s answer these questions honestly
Each answer should say YES | NO | SOMETIMES
- I no longer feel emotionally safe expressing how I truly feel
- Everyone says he’s the perfect husband... so why do I still feel unseen?
- When I imagine our future, it feels heavy, not hopeful
- I’ve stopped bringing up what hurts because nothing ever changes
- We live together, but the silence between us is louder than our words
- We rarely laugh together anymore, and our conversations revolve around logistics rather than connection... I feel we’re flatmates rather than partners
- We are rarely intimate; and when we are it feels more like a chore than pleasure - Isn’t this just what marriage is after all these years... am I expecting too much?
- I’ve become the peacekeeper, even when it costs me my peace
- I feel guilty even thinking about leaving... especially because of the kids
- Is it my fear of being alone that makes me wonder if it’s safer to stay?
- I question if I love him or if I’m just too afraid to lose what’s familiar
- We make our own plans during the day... time with friends is more enjoyable
- I’m terrified of leaving and wonder if I’ll regret it forever... but I’m also scared of staying and wonder if I’ll regret that forever
- I miss the version of me that felt confident, calm, and alive
- Deep down, I know something has to change... even if I’m not sure what yet.
Did these words feel like mirrors instead of questions? Did you answer yes to more than half the questions? If so, that’s your heart asking to be heard, asking to be seen
You’re not broken for feeling torn... you’re human for still hoping that you can find exactly what you’re looking for
Do you wish you had someone to talk to, someone you could trust,
and who would guide you to find your way without any judgement?